by Grubnut » Sat, 12Dec15 09:54
After many years, many women, many I still care about, I can say that every woman has her own special beauty, her own ways and attractions. I appreciate every woman for who she is.
Milan Kundera writes about men who seek that special spark in women. It is different with every one of them. (And if you have not yet read the books of Milan Kundera ...... )
So I do not care what color her hair, her height, her skin, her nationality.
However, I understand myself well enough to know that I do not like,
Young -- which is not only physical age, but mentally, because attractive woman has become a woman. Older than 20 for sure.
Fake -- in all its guises. No fake tits, no excess make up, no put-on personality.
Fat -- fat women have their special qualities, just like others, but I am not attracted to fat
Mental -- dumb is not sexy, psychologically damaged is too challenging, games are fine but life in the ozone is not for me
I like best the smart ones, educated, successful at whatever they do, open to the new and savoring life. Do not confuse that with sex. I refer to real life -- art, music, literature, food, conversation, travel, experiences, etc. Sex is just one of the things to enjoy with women.