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Re: Escorts

Postby sion » Sun, 10Dec05 01:48

Okay Guys seriouse stuff!

Anyone ever used an escort and if so how does the whole thing work? Im kinda intrigued by the whole idea of having sex with a porn star although I understand it doesn't usually work like that. They are just escorts and they are legally only being paid to escort you on a night out or what ever.

Any ideas?
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Re: Escorts

Postby criofish » Sat, 11Nov05 21:29

I never thought to make love with a car [img]images/icones/icon17.gif[/img]
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Re: Escorts

Postby Greebo » Sat, 11Nov05 22:12

Surely, apart from the automotive Escort that repays your attempts at sex with a sooty cock and low satisfaction, the only other sort of escort that would allow sex for a suitable remuneration is otherwise more generally known as a "Prostitute"! (No matter how you 'tart' up the job description! [img]images/icones/icon17.gif[/img] )
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Re: Escorts

Postby criofish » Sat, 11Nov05 22:31

Greebo wrote:Surely, apart from the automotive Escort that repays your attempts at sex with a sooty cock and low satisfaction, the only other sort of escort that would allow sex for a suitable remuneration is otherwise more generally known as a "Prostitute"! (No matter how you 'tart' up the job description! [img]images/icones/icon17.gif[/img] )



our first minister is well known to be passionate of such "easy driving" cars [img]images/icones/icon15.gif[/img]
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Re: Escorts

Postby shark » Sat, 11Nov05 22:40

criofish wrote:our first minister is well known to be passionate of such "easy driving" cars [img]images/icones/icon15.gif[/img]

really?!!! I always thought that they were his nurses !
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Re: Escorts

Postby Trucla » Sat, 11Nov05 23:02

shark wrote:really?!!! I always thought that they were his nurses !
Oh my! Is the poor man ill? :lol:
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Re: Escorts

Postby Greebo » Sun, 11Nov06 00:01

shark wrote:really?!!! I always thought that they were his nurses !

That's only because some of them dress like nurses, just as some dress like schoolgirls, secretaries, nuns and hookers! Oh, wait! The last ones were in their everyday clothes! [img]images/icones/icon13.gif[/img] [img]images/icones/icon7.gif[/img]
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Re: Escorts

Postby criofish » Sun, 11Nov06 12:06

shark wrote:
criofish wrote:our first minister is well known to be passionate of such "easy driving" cars [img]images/icones/icon15.gif[/img]

really?!!! I always thought that they were his nurses !


Trucla wrote:
shark wrote:really?!!! I always thought that they were his nurses !
Oh my! Is the poor man ill? :lol:


:lol:

au fait, il est malade
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Re: Escorts

Postby Trucla » Sun, 11Nov06 15:32

criofish wrote: :lol:

au fait, il est malade
Una malattia venerea? ;)
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Re: Escorts

Postby Teaser » Sun, 13Jul28 01:10

First off: escorts and prostitution in Germany are legal. Therefore I am not certain that my personal experience applies to other countries where prostitution remains illegal.
Prostitutes in Germany have legal rights and can have the police arrest a customer who beats or abuses them or refuses payment after the act.

What is not legal in Germany is pimping (or hustling), that is one person being the 'protector' of one or more prostitutes who have to hand over most of their gains for 'protection by their pimp' from 'dangerous customers' whereas the most danger actually arises from the pimp himself (in most cases pimps are still male).

First fact: *Always Respect Her*. The fact that she is using her body to get an income does not mean that you should treat her like a slob or that she is stupid. Treat her with respect like you would a new girlfriend, and you will reap lots of benefits. Try to find out carefully if she is being coerced in any way into this job. If yes, be a kind soul, allow her to stay or use up your time with her talking, don't use her body in any way, pay her for her time, call the police after your/her stay, talk to them, and keep her safe. She needs it.

Second fact: Always stick to her limits. If she says no to something, accept it. She knows the limits of her body (and soul) better than you do. This is not a relationship where you slowly try to convince someone that she/he will come to like swallowing, deep-throating, anal, or anything like that. This is a contract and both sides should stick to it.

Third fact: despite this being a job many models still actually like the sex (just emotion-free-no-strings-attached-sex). As such try that you do not only receive pleasure from her (unless that was your fantasy and you have talked it through with the model beforehand). Rather, try to give her as much pleasure as you recieve from her, and again, you will reap benefits.

Now to the proceedings.

In Germany you usually call up an escort service or a model directly.
There are quite a lot internet sites around in Germany which offer direct links to what is euphemistically called 'models' or 'escorts'.

If you wish to check out one the better known ones in Hamburg, call up http://www.modelle-hamburg.de/?entry=1
or for Germany http://www.ladies.de/
Sorry, Ladies.de is in German only.

This should give you an insight into what is legally possible in Germany.

Once you call up the escort service you receive either a direct link to their homepage via text or email, where you can check up the available escort for that escort agency, or you can describe the type of escort (asian, blond, tall, chubby, petite, young, mature, you name it) you want and the services required.
Depending on how long you wish your escort to be in your company you will receive a set price (mostly from escort agencies) or a variable price which can be bartered down a bit (mostly with models that you visit in their appartments), obviously also depending on the services required. In many cases they have abbreviations for different services. If required I could offer some insight into those abbreviations. Ask me if necessary.

Obviously this is always safer sex. No-condom-blowjobs are somewhat risky (not for HIV, but other STDs, such as gonorhea or chlamydiae) but are pretty standard fare as the risk of actually being infected is very low during oral sex (the human oral cavity is such a cornucopia of aggressive bacteria that most STDs have a hard time surviving there - if you ever want to see the most infective bites of any animal on this planet check out either the Komodo dragon or human bites). HIV and HEP have a very, very, very small chance of being transmitted orally; but this is akin to being struck by lightning.

Note: some models offer AO (alles ohne - that is all services without condom, including sexual intercourse or even anal). Be very wary of those models.
You have been warned. Note that even these models usually remain uninfected by serious diseases like HIV or HEP for a long time, but chlamydiae and gonorhea are very prevalent among them. The last two STDs can still be treated relatively easily by antibiotics but note that some strains of these bacteria have become virtually immune to most anti-biotics.

In Hamburg the going rate
with appartement models:
approximately 1/2 hour sex with a blowjob and straight sex goes for around 70-80 €, one hour of standard sex with a non-condom-blowjob is around 100-120 €, anal usually adds 30-50 €. Note that many models in appartements will offer an all-inclusive service for 1 hours at 150-200 € no matter what service (still safer).

Escort agencies:
Escort agencies usually charge around 15-25% more than appartement models (so 100 € for 1/2 hour if at all available, as that would require to much time of travel for the model for a too small income, to between 180-200 € per hour, in many cases longer times the hour price drops, and sometimes you can get an overnight price with a considerably lower price tag per hour than 120€ per hour). In many cases you have to also pay the taxi fare as part of the deal.

Appartement models (arrival):
If you visit the model in her appartement you usually enter the appartement and follow her to a bedroom where she will again restate her prices for different services.

If you are inexperienced with a professional you might be really highly excited so that you might cum very quickly as this is something new and a bit taboo. Ask her beforehand if you might be able to cum more than once during your stay if you fear that this excitement might be the case.

You can usually lower the price by haggling with her, usually by 10-20 €, depending on your length of stay. Always, always, always ask for the exact services included in a package, even if have asked for an all-inclusive, no questions asked package. If she refuses something at this point either you a) are able AND willing to pay more for the service or b) she really does not offer that service. If that service is an essential part of your package ask her once, if she would be willing to change her mind. If no, tell her politely but firmly that the contract will not be acceptable and turn to leave. This might result in 1) her accepting the service (she wanted to see if you really refused to pay the price) or 2) you leaving. Consider leaving with all your money a better outcome than a failed attempt at something she does not really like.

Note once you accept a package of services from a model for a set price, you usually pay for it in advance. Once this is done you usually cannot get her to change her mind about the stated services --- unless you wish to upgrade your length of stay. Usually the model will then leave the room to bring the money to a safe place.

Usually in Germany it is quite safe to carry a small amount of additional money into a models appartement (obviously this depends on the quality of the appartment) as they do not wish to have the police investigating a case of robbery if money goes missing from your wallet. But do not carry several hundred euros. Temptation topples the strongest characters sometimes.

Then, depending on the quality of the appartement you will be asked to a) strip and lie down on the bed (baaad omen) b) strip and wash (better, but still not very good) c) be shown the bathroom, shower and preferably fresh towels (good to very good).

If you are asked to strip and lie down this means that the model does not care for your cleanliness, and that reflects badly on her (both physically, mentally, and socially).
If you are asked to strip and wash this usually means that you should wash all relative parts of your body that could smell. Focus particularly on your armpits, your genital area and your butt. Be as fresh and clean as you can. There is going to be a female down there soon. In some cases the models have mouthwash and plastic cups around for you to use. Good sign.
Note that you might want to carry your own shampoo/shower gel/deodorant if you have a significant someone waiting at home for you. Women are absolutely incredible at detecting even faint traces of a foreign perfume or a changed eau de cologne.
If you are asked to take a shower: good sign. Note that taking a shower with the model is often an option. This time already counts as your active time with most models.

Once you return to the bed or (if your fantasy requires it) any other room of the appartement you usually enter into some small talk with the model to set the mood. But this again varies with the model, the services required, and your state of nervousness. Usually its quite good to allow both you and her to enter into small talk if you have at least one hour of time. For a half-hour stay this normally is not required. This is obviously a come-and-fuck-as-quickly-as-possible situation.

Once you have set the mood proceed as wanted with your model. Again, treat her with respect. Even if you are playing a dominant and she a submissive, always accept the safe word, and stop once she gives it.

You might be able to extend your stay as long as the model has no other set dates to keep and you have enough money on you. Upgrading the services from your side *if* you pay more is also usually no problem. This usually results in you paying more than if you had stated it at the beginning because obviously you dont want to interrupt for longer than necessary to get out the money and pay her. Don't even believe that you can think straight once the blood has gone south. Thinking straight with a raging hard-on is virtually impossible.

What becomes problematic is when the model continually tries to badger you into lengthening your stay or paying just a bit more for better service. This shows you that she either she is a) not satisfied with her job b) not satisfied with you as a customer, c) not really interested in gaining you as a long-term customer but more as a stop-gap measure to quickly fill her purse. This is called 'Nachkobern' in German, something like 'renegotiating'. This can be problem.

A good escort/model allows you as the customer to believe the fantasy of being a great lover and satisfies your belief in this. A model that continually asks for more money does not allow you that fantasy as you are always dragged back to the notion that you are paying for sex.

Once you have finished (or used up your time) you will usually be given the chance to freshen up once more (or even take an additional shower), and then usually kindly evicted from the appartement. If she has done exceptionally well you are well advised to give her a tip if you wish to return to her sometime later. Note that tips are not given often but only if she did really well.

Escort models
Usually you do not visit escorts. Rather the escort comes to you. This is called 'Haus & Hotel' ie 'house/home and hotel' service. She will either come to your hotel room (usually you give the address and room number to the agency) or your home.

In both cases the introductory period depends on the length of time you have agreed on previously. In most cases you introduce yourself to her normally with your first name. After that you restate the requested services to see if she is okay with that. If you really don't like her at all you might be better advised to politely ask her to leave. In that case you might have to settle her fare as well as up to one half the agreed price.

Once she accepts the terms you usually offer her the payment up front; if you wish to be polite in an envelope. In many cases she will now call her agency to say that time is running now. This will be a safeguard for her as well as an additional timekeeper should she somehow forget it. If she stays overnight this is usually not the case, she might only call the agency that everything proceeds as agreed.

If you have a whole evening, drinks like wine or champagne are appropriate, maybe even a room-service dinner. If her stay is one hour you usually proceed similar to the appartment way, only the other way round. You show her the bedroom and the bathroom and ask if she wants to take a shower (maybe with you). As most escorts are somewhat higher priced than appartement models you usually have a few more liberties regarding the services offered.

Proceed as with the appartement models. Usually she will keep time.
Once time is up allow her to clean up and take a shower, and in this case you might give her a tip as she took the time to come to you instead of the other way round. The value of the tip depends on the length of her, but 10 € should be the minimum.
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